Back at it! This has been a really fun exercise. I’ve taken a pretty long break from writing, and I’m glad to be back.
Day 8: Activities you have fun doing
I cannot overstate the joy that sewing brings me. I’ve tackled just a few projects this year, but each has totally filled my metaphorical cup. This summer, I made my son’s baptism outfit. I haven’t made a garment since the first few months of the pandemic, and sewing that little romper reminded me of the joy and challenges of the process. I’ve also worked on a few decorations for my son’s birthday party, and I am absolutely giddy at getting to stay home one day soon and make more. I’m grateful that I can find a few pockets of time here and there to sew (and I hope I can make more time in the future).
Day 9: Friends you’re lucky to have
I’m so grateful to my friends, and I’m lucky to have each of them in my life. Sometimes I feel like I’ve been swallowed a bit by motherhood — not in a negative way, but in a way that sometimes prevents me from prioritizing these relationships. I regret that, but I also am so grateful that I have those friends to return to when I come up for air.
Day 10: Animals that make you smile
First, I have to shout out our two cats Ember and Merlin. They are so fun, so sweet and only occasionally nightmarish.
But outside of these two, I’m grateful for all the creatures that wander through our yard, despite living in the city. This includes deer, foxes, an opossum and, most recently, six turkeys.
Day 11: A time when you were fearless
I have a lot of feelings about giving birth. I had a really good experience overall. At the same time, I felt like I didn’t fully absorb the process and wish I would have done a few things differently. Labor and birth and all that goes with it is incredibly overwhelming, and I felt like I benefited a bit from that tunnel vision to work through it all.This being said, I felt like I went into the hospital and delivered my son with as little fear as I could muster. I had worry, but not fear. He was born perfect. I’m forever grateful for that.
Day 12: What (or who) uplifts you
When I was fairly far into labor, one of the nurses said to me that when things change in labor, it often can be a good thing or at least a sign the situation is progressing. I remember her saying something like, “No matter what, we’re going to tell you you’re doing a good job. You puked? Good job! You feel like you need to change positions? Good job! You need a sip of water? Good job!” I found that little speech to be really uplifting. I’m grateful to her and the other nurses who cared for me in the hospital. They are so compassionate and encouraging. I regret that I only remember one of their names, but Chanah, know I’ll always be so grateful to you and all your help.
Day 13: An act of true kindness
Early this year, my friend Gina came by to meet my son. I am so grateful to her for many reasons (including the crash course on babies she gave me last fall). During this visit, she snapped pictures of me and my newborn. “No one ever gets pictures of moms,” she said. It’s kind of true. That gesture was so thoughtful and kind. It’s one of the many, many kind things people have done for me this past year, but it’s one I’ll remember.
Day 14: What you’re proud of
On a professional level, I’m really proud of my resilience this year, and, for the first time in a while, I’m excited about the work I’m doing. I’m grateful to my new manager for understanding my strengths and giving me opportunities to shine.
I’ll be keeping up with this series all November long. Share what you’re thankful for below, and stay tuned for new editions every Friday.
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