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August 12, 2024 by Lisa Leave a Comment

What I Read // July 2024

Filed Under: Books Tagged With: Books, Summer


I have a backlog of Libro.fm credits which means this month is full of summer releases. Truly what a treat, especially since some of my favorite authors, like Lucy Foley and Riley Sager, have new books.

Also, if you’re on the fence about some of these reads, I’ve added a “read if you like” section. Maybe that’ll help you find a new fave (or avoid something that might be a waste of time for you). Anyways, on with the summer reads!

The Midnight Feast by Lucy Foley • 🎧 • ★★★★☆

Lucy Foley does summer reading right. In The Midnight Feast, she transports you to a remote yet dreamy vacation destination in northern England. At this manor turned luxury retreat, the wealthy mingle and bask in the glow of health guru turned hotelier Francesca.

But what’s Francesca’s deal? What’s the only single traveler doing there? What’s up with all the feathers?

This story took some time to unravel, and I delighted in every moment. Bring this new release on vacation!

Read if you like: The Club by Ellery Lloyd, The Guest List by Lucy Foley

Middle of the Night by Riley Sager • 🎧 • ★★★★☆

It’s hard to believe that the first Riley Sager book I picked up (Lock Every Door) had me less than impressed. Since then, every book from Sager has been four or more stars.

In the latest outing and great summer book, Sager plops you right into suburbia. There, Ethan reckons not only with returning to his family home after years away, but also to where his best friend disappeared decades prior.

Sager does a great job of making a pleasant subdivision and its residents seem unseemly. And maybe there is a phantom in the woods?

Read if you like: Any other Riley Sager books, The Woman in the Window by A.J. Finn

The God of the Woods by Liz Moore • 🎧 • ★★★★☆

This new summer book definitely hit on a lot of themes you’ll see on my read shelf: mystery, rural settings, summer camp, wealthy families, not-so-wealthy locals. But just because the themes are familiar, doesn’t mean The God of the Woods is one to skip.

I got pretty invested in listening to this one! In this novel by Liz Moore, a young teenage girl goes missing at summer camp. It’s scary and sad; it’s also suspicious since her brother went missing in the same area years prior. So are the two connected or is this fancy family just cursed?

You’ll want to find out, and I won’t spoil it for ya!

Read if you like: Bittersweet by Miranda Beverly-Whittemore

Funny Story by Emily Henry • ★★★★☆

I think that Emily Henry books sell themselves at this point. They are always charming, always satisfying and always are read in just a few sittings.

I did love the new-to-me setup of Funny Story: Daphne’s fiance breaks off their engagement; meanwhile Miles’s girlfriend dumps him — to couple up with that same fiance. While the dust settles, Daphne and Miles are thrust together to sort out their lives in the small town where all four live.

I have to say this was a smash for a summer read. It’s set over the course of the season on a coastal town in Michigan. While Michigan isn’t the same as Wisconsin, it definitely gave me a Door County feeling — always a plus in summer.

Read if you like: Any other Emily Henry books, One Night on the Island by Josie Silver

We Used to Live Here by Marcus Kliewer • ★★☆☆☆

The premise of We Used to Live Here had me from the jump: A couple moves into an old home with hopes of flipping it. During renovations, a family drops by asking to see inside since the father grew up there. Despite assurances that they’ll be 15 minutes, the family does not leave. This terrifies me. It’s the very basic premise of Funny Games, a movie that still haunts me if I think about it for too long.

This core made We Used to Live Here pretty scary to me! Plus, some of the supernatural elements really gave me the heebie jeebies. But overall, this book fell flat for me for a few major reasons:

  1. This book originally began as installments on Reddit. It still read that way to me. It could have used some more sophisticated editing, IMO.
  2. The structure of this book included prose, found documents, and reports. The latter devices felt a bit lazy to me. Or online forum-y.
  3. It just ended. I felt like the author didn’t quite know how to wrap up the story or, at the very least, provide a satisfying cliffhanger. This lack of of a conclusion felt very Reddit/comments section to me.

Read if you like: Episode Thirteen by Craig DiLouie and Just Like Home by Sarah Gailey

Saturday Night at the Lakeside Supper Club by J. Ryan Stradal • ★★★★☆

I picked this book up at the end of the summer last year, right around the time my family visits our favorite supper club together (that’d be The Ranch in Hayward, WI). But it was a tender time, and I didn’t want to read about the rise and fall of a Midwest supper club. But this July, I did, and I’m glad I cracked this one open.

Saturday Night at the Lakeside Supper Club follows four women across four generations. Each has a totally different relationship with the family’s Minnesota restaurant and those who work there. I liked the tension between each generation and the hominess of the woodsy part of the Midwest. It made me wish I had a family business to love and gripe about.

Read if you like: Last Summer at the Golden Hotel by Elyssa Friedland

Diavola by Jennifer Marie Thorne • ★★★☆☆

One more scary tale to cap off the month! I was in the mood for thrillers and ghosts and supernatural scares. Diavola delivered.

In this newer release, a family vacations together in an Italian villa. The trip is fine. Sure, the siblings have their snits and the brother’s new boyfriend is insufferable, but nothing a quaint town and some past can’t fix, right?

Wrong. After snooping around the rental, suspicious things start to happen: there are noises at night, food starts rotting overnight, and everyone is on edge. Or maybe just one person?

I enjoyed the family drama and the spookiness of Diavola quite a bit, but I didn’t fine any of the characters to be people I wanted to root for. It was a fun read, great for summer (particularly when you’re reading from a raft in a lake far from Italy).

Read if you like: HBO’s White Lotus season two, The Haunting of Hill House by Shirley Jackson.

Keep up with what I’ve read over on Goodreads! Also, if you’re an audiobook fan, I encourage you to try Libro.fm—you can support your favorite small bookstore while downloading your next listen.

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June 28, 2024 by Lisa Leave a Comment

What I Read // May + June 2024

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According to Goodreads, I’m pretty much on-pace with my 2024 goal of finishing 40 books. Here’s what I picked up in the last throes of spring and early summer.

Where You End by Abbott Kahler • ★★★☆☆

I try not to critique books (or TV or movies or whatever) for what they aren’t or for what I thought they should have been.

But like with Mister Magic, the premise of Where You End was so intriguing yet the story wasn’t what I hoped for. In Where You End, Kat awakes from a coma with no memories. Her identical twin sister Jude fills her in on what she’s forgotten—or does she?

What Kat has forgotten is the time she and her sister spent in a new age-y cult. It sounds great, but I was underwhelmed.

A Witch’s Guide to Fake Dating a Demon by Sarah Hawley • ★★★☆☆

A witchy read in the middle of spring? Sometimes you just can’t control when your number at the library is going to be called.

A Witch’s Guide to Fake Dating a Demon was better than I though considering how absolutely daft the title sounds. Like many other witchy rom-coms, the main character, Mariel, struggles with her magic. Is she the worst-ever witch or is she just good at some very niche spells?

Throughout the book, Mariel begins to find out, even if it means accidentally summoning and falling in love (real or not) with a demon.

This book was charming, but nothing I insist that you pick up—particularly outside of witchy reading season.

In Charm’s Way by Lana Harper • ★★★☆☆

This is the fourth installation in The Witches of Thistle Grove series. I enjoyed the first three books, but I’ll say that I really didn’t care for this one.

Delilah, the protagonist in In Charm’s Way was sympathetic and I really enjoyed how Harper picked up her story from the previous book and gave her a monumental challenge to overcome.

What I didn’t care for was the love interest in this story. Or rather—SPOILER—how this terrible love interest returned and managed a second chance. Ick.

The Manor House by Gilly Macmillan • ★★★★☆

I never know what to expect with domestic thrillers. Sometimes they’re un-put-down-able. Other times I know why they were a $1.99 Kindle deal or always available at the library.

The Manor House delivered in a big way for me. I ripped through this one in about four days.

Why was it so good? An English couple wins the lottery and moves into their dream home packed with fancy smart features, big windows and a pool. They live near some very fancy neighbors with their own live-in housekeeper. Their new life has them almost forgetting all about their weird friend who keeps asking for more money and random hikers that keep hiking through their yard.

But then the husband is found dead in the pool. And of course it’s great because there are plenty of feasible suspects. And his drowning might not even be the only mystery! And smart home features are scary! (Don’t tell my Nest thermostat which I fully believe has a mind of its own.)

The Secrets of Hartwood Hall by Katie Lumsden • ★★★☆☆

A governess flees her hometown after the death of her husband to take a new post for a mysterious family at a dilapidated manor far from home? Sign me up.

The Secrets of Hartwood Hall has almost all the gothic elements you could ever want. Not enough ghosts for me, but still a nice read. Yes, I’m deducting a star for lack of ghosts.

One Perfect Couple by Ruth Ware • 🎧 • ★★★★☆

I love a good Ruth Ware read. In a Dark, Dark Wood and One by One are such good snowy thrillers, and I was thrilled to find that her latest outing was set somewhere tropical.

One Perfect Couple hits on a lot of really great tropes in terms of summer reading and page-turning thrillers: a reality TV show, mismatched couples, shipwrecks, remote islands, and DRAMA.

I won’t share more because if you like Ruth Ware’s work or any of the tropes above, you’ll be in good hands with this one. I’d also recommend One Perfect Couple if you liked Reckless Girls by Rachel Hawkins.

Keep up with what I’ve read over on Goodreads! Also, if you’re an audiobook fan, I encourage you to try Libro.fm—you can support your favorite small bookstore while downloading your next listen.

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May 23, 2024 by Lisa Leave a Comment

What to Say (and Not Say) at a Funeral

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My mom died back in March. In mid-April, my family held her funeral. It was obviously terrible, but it was also really comforting and healing. I am so grateful to many of my mom’s friends and some loved ones of my own for coming to pay their respects and to check on my family.

Despite being really, really hard, so many folks shared so many thoughtful words and stories. I treasure those moments as I grieve.

With this all in mind, I want to share what I found most touching and helpful at my mom’s service (and honestly at others I’ve attended too).

What to Say at a Funeral

  • “I remember when…” I love to hear memories. If you have a heartfelt, goofy or just plain nice story, please share it with the family as you work your way through the receiving line.
  • “They were such a great…” Tell someone what an amazing person the deceased was. Were they a wonderful listener? A fun coworker? A first-rate gardener? Terrific at mixing a Tom Collins? These remarks can help remind you how incredible your loved one was—or can even give you some unknown insight into their talents or character.
  • “You remind me of them.” The highest compliment I could ever be paid.

What to Do at a Funeral

  • Bring a treat or gift. My friend Gina brought me a chocolate croissant during my mom’s visitation. She had it packaged up to take home to enjoy later. My friend Katie dropped off a card with a grocery store gift card. These gifts were really appreciated (and they were super useful to keep me fortified the day-of and days after).
  • Send flowers. When in doubt, send flowers. They are a visual reminder of your support (plus my mom loved plants).
  • Make a donation. Some families may suggest donations can be made to a particular cause to honor the deceased. This is a great way to show your respects. If a family hasn’t chosen any certain organization, choose one you support or one you think the deceased would appreciate (provided it’s not political or religious in a way the deceased wouldn’t like; this is not the time to rile up a family). Great options always include humane societies, libraries, environmental causes and food pantries.
  • Write a card. Sometimes funerals and receiving lines are busy. If you have words to share, write them down! They’re a nice token to revisit later.

What Not to Say at a funeral

Even though most came to the funeral with kind intentions, there were still some more challenging conversations. I know that death is hard. I know funerals can be uncomfortable, but here are a few things to just not get into at a visitation or service (besides the obvious topics to avoid in polite conversation):

  • “How did they die?” This one really stung. Someone walked up to me and said, “Oh I thought your mom was sick or something was wrong. What happened, and how did she die?” I understand the curiosity, especially when someone isn’t particularly old, but please, do not ask (or at least do not ask the family). It’s really painful to rehash the details of someone’s physical decline in the midst of an extremely difficult day.
  • “They weren’t looking so great.” Trust me: A grieving person knows this. They know that their loved one wasn’t feeling or looking their best. Do not point this out. It does nothing to console. It’s insensitive and insulting.
  • Any comments about the appearance of the deceased. My mom was cremated, so there was no viewing. However, I’ve been at many a funeral with an open casket. Don’t make any remarks on how a person looks. Don’t say they don’t look good. Don’t say they look peaceful. Don’t say they look like they just fell asleep. Even if the words are honest, they aren’t always ready to be received. And under no circumstance comment on how the deceased doesn’t look good. Please.
  • Any critical comments about the visitation, viewing, service, eulogy, etc. Didn’t like the songs? Wish there were more photos? Thought the service was long? Keep it all to yourself. The people that organized the day are sad, they are struggling and they are doing their best. Good vibes only.

Depressing? You bet! But I hope this is helpful to people trying to support friends in need.

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May 8, 2024 by Lisa Leave a Comment

What I Read // April 2024

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It’s been a really trying month. My mom is gone. I’ve spent a lot of time feeling empty and trying to fill days with low-effort, benign entertainment. Reading often counts. So does Antiques Roadshow.

Nora by Nuala O’Connor • ★★★★☆

Michael and I celebrated St. Patrick’s Day in a pretty low-key way: We ate homemade brown bread, shepherd’s pie, and shared a Guinness. We also listened to the Significant Others podcast on Nora Barnacle, James Joyce’s wife. The historian on the show recommended this book, and I figured it was the perfect way to enjoy the rest of the holiday.

From what I understand, not a ton is known about Nora Barnacle. Joyce’s letters to her have survived (and they are absolutely batshit), but her correspondences have been lost. O’Connor does a good job at pasting what is known about Nora together in this rather lengthy book.

A lot of what I’ve read about Nora is that she was uneducated and kind of a bumpkin. O’Connor shows that this certainly couldn’t be true. She portrays Nora as being savvy, smart and stubborn. While Joyce runs around Trieste, Zurich and Paris with his cronies, Nora keeps their life as stable as she can and gives Joyce the space to write.

I think this is a must-read for James Joyce folks.

Death and Croissants by Ian Moore • 🎧 • ★★★☆☆

Immediately after my mom died, I needed mental respite. This took form as reruns of Superstore and The Great British Bake Off. It also meant reaching for a genre that I find entertaining but not taxing: a cozy mystery.

Death and Croissants is set in the Loire Valley, a part of France I visited last year. It was enough for me to bite. This little mystery was funny and absolutely full. How Moore managed to fit a chicken-loving innkeeper, nudist swingers, bounty hunters and mafia members into a short book is beyond me; but he did it and it was the respite I needed.

Fever by Mary Beth Keane • ★★★★☆

I’ve read and learned about Typhoid Mary in the past. The way the story goes is that Mary Mallon, an Irish cook and asymptomatic typhoid carrier, went from home to home cooking for families, always leaving death in her wake.

This typical telling makes Mary out to be calculating and cruel. Fever flips this narrative on its head. In Fever, Mary cooks so she can earn a better living than she ever could as a laundress or maid. She cares for the families she works for. When her employers fall ill, she’s saddened but moves on to wherever she’s needed next so she can keep a roof over her head.

This perspective is one I never really thought of. Even Keane’s telling of how Mary continued to cook despite knowing her diagnosis was sympathetic. I think Mary Mallon is due this sort of story.

A Haunting on the Hill by Elizabeth Hand • ★★★★☆

Elizabeth Hand’s Wylding Hall is one of the best-ever moody, spooky reads. I knew that A Haunting on the Hill, a riff on The Haunting of Hill House by Shirley Jackson, would hit all the right notes.

A Haunting on the Hill had the slow, creepy build that makes so many books and movies perfectly spine-tingling. A woman on vacation comes across the infamous Hill House while on vacation. She is immediately taken with the home, and convinces her girlfriend and a small crew of actors to join as she workshops her upcoming play.

Personal dramas, secrets from the past and general eeriness all start to seep into the rehearsals, and it’s wonderfully spooky. This is a great vacation read — if typical light beach reads aren’t your thing.

Keep up with what I’ve read over on Goodreads! Also, if you’re an audiobook fan, I encourage you to try Libro.fm—you can support your favorite small bookstore while downloading your next listen.

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April 12, 2024 by Lisa 1 Comment

Mom

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It’s been a few weeks, but it feels unreal that my mom is gone. The brightest light in my life has gone out.

After battling brain cancer for three years, my mom passed away on March 23, 2024. This isn’t something I’ve shared much about, though it’s occupied my mind every minute of the day since her diagnosis.

Despite a really terrible prognosis, my mom did so much since her surgery back in February 2021 and all the subsequent treatments and therapy sessions. She traveled to Maine, Las Vegas, the Grand Canyon and all across Wisconsin. She celebrated her 40th wedding anniversary in spectacular style (and her 41st too!). My mom gained a daughter-in-law. She attended comedy and drag shows. She shopped so many craft fairs and street festivals. She played countless games of cribbage and cards. My mom did so much.

And she continued to love us all as well. When my mom finally woke up after a long recovery, she knew my dad, my family and me. She made us all feel incredibly loved, and that’s something I’ll carry with me forever.

It’s been a really tough few weeks since losing my mom, so even though I could write about her for the rest of my life, I’ll leave you all with her obituary:


Nancy Ann (Michalek) Kaminski passed away March 23, 2024 surrounded by her loving family. Nancy was born to Norma (Brannan) Michalek on March 10, 1956 in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.

From an early age, Nancy had a knack for creating. As a girl she spent weekends sewing with her grandmother. Nancy would practice this skill for decades to come. She worked at a seamstress at Gimbels and continued to sew throughout her life. Nancy made clothing and costumes for her children, altered clothing for friends and family, stitched up projects to decorate her home, and made plenty of scrub jackets, surgical caps, and masks for the many doctors and nurses she worked with throughout her careers.

Nancy also happily spent countless hours in the kitchen, a passion she inherited from her mother. Those lucky enough to know Nancy surely indulged in many of her baked goods and wonderful dinners. Nancy’s talents gained her recognition in the form of Wisconsin State Fair ribbons, an article in The Milwaukee Journal Sentinel, and plenty of requests to share her recipes (which she did happily).

Beyond crafting and baking, Nancy enjoyed her garden. She had a special love for beautiful flowers, vegetables, and herbs. Hardly a summer day went by without Nancy pulling out just one more weed before she ran out to spend time with family and friends.

Because Nancy never liked to sit still, she filled any spare time she could with games of cribbage with her husband Allen, traveling, bumming with her sisters and daughters, and volunteering at Ascension Columbia-St. Mary’s.

What Nancy was most known for, however, was her warmth, kind heart, and infectious laugh. These qualities made Nancy an incredible wife, sister, mother, grandmother, and friend.

Nancy is survived by her husband of nearly 42 years, Allen; sisters Debby and Mary Michalek; children James, Charles, Chad Kowalewski (Katie), Heather Kowalewski, Angela, and Lisa (Michael Stock); and grandchildren Benjamin and Anna Kowalewski. She is further survived by many, many friends.

Nancy is loved beyond measure and will be deeply missed by all those who knew her.

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March 31, 2024 by Lisa Leave a Comment

What I Read // March 2023

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This month, I needed books for escape and support. Here’s what I managed to read and listen to.

The Golden Spoon by Jessa Maxwell • ★★★★☆

In January, I read Romantic Comedy which is set around an SNL-like show. This month, I read The Golden Spoon which riffs of The Great British Bake-Off. Sometimes these obvious parallels are tedious but not so with either. Instead, they provide a sort of shorthand for the set-up.

In this instance, a handful of bakers arrive at the Grafton estate for a reality competition. From the jump, the show is off: There’s a new host, one baker uses salt instead of sugar and another has a total meltdown over a secret ingredient. And then someone turns up dead. Oh, and all this is on top of maybe another mystery?

I read this in a flash. It was the equivalent of binging five eps of GBBO or inhaling a pretty good chocolate croissant.

People Like Her by Ellery Lloyd • ★★★★☆

I read The Club by Lloyd back in 2022. She proved in that book and in her newest outing that she’s a master at slowly revealing the rotten insides of fame and influence.

In People Like Her, Lloyd explores the world of “you do you, mama!” parenting influencer Emmy. Emmy shares her rise to fame from magazine editor to diaper-shilling Instamum. Meanwhile, her husband is disillusioned by her phony stories and perpetually sharing their lives. And a follow or two seem to have it out for her. I couldn’t put this one down.

This book is not for everyone. It deals with a lot of really sensitive and triggering issues like infertility, death and postpartum depression.

The In-Between: Unforgettable Encounters During Life’s Final Moments by Hadley Vlahos • 🎧 • ★★★★☆

I’ve had some trouble lately with books (or movies or TV) that hit a little too close to home. I gave up on a holiday rom-com a few months ago because a character was dealing with memory loss. I pressed pause on TJ Klune’s Under the Whispering Door because it was discussing the afterlife.

By that logic, The In-Between, a book written by a hospice nurse about her experience with end-of-life care, is the last possible book I should be listening to. But The In-Between didn’t repel me; instead, it made me meditate on lives well lived and what may come next.

Done and Dusted by Lyla Sage • 🎧 • ★★★☆☆

I have mixed feelings about this one. I picked up Done and Dusted because I needed something different than what I’d been reading lately. I’ve read a lot nonfiction (at least for me) this year and some heavier novels. The inverse of that to me was a cowboy romance.

In some ways, I really enjoyed Done and Dusted. I appreciated the fact that the MC, Emmy, had ADHD. That experience was woven into Emmy’s experience and how her loved ones cared for her. I found that to be very thoughtful.

But some of the specifics of the characters’ romantic relationship were a little iffy and uncomfortable to me.

Keep up with what I’ve read over on Goodreads! Also, if you’re an audiobook fan, I encourage you to try Libro.fm—you can support your favorite small bookstore while downloading your next listen.

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February 29, 2024 by Lisa Leave a Comment

What I Read // February 2024

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February was a slower month for me in terms of reading and just at-home activities. I’ve pressed pause on a lot of hobbies like sewing and stitching and puzzles. Instead I’ve been watching The Great British Bake Off‘s early seasons on the Roku Channel (who knew?), playing Hogwarts Legacy and listening to podcasts (I’ve really been enjoying Queers Gone By).

This all being said, I did get through three books this month (and part of another before I decided that I did not want to listen to another six hours about professional wrestling).

Empire of the Wild by Cherie Dimaline • ★★★★☆

My favorite way to enjoy books is via the library. It’s free, it’s supporting an invaluable institution. It also means that sometimes a book you put on hold becomes available when you’re not quite in the mood for it. That was the case with this book. But within just a few pages Dimaline changed my mind.

In Empire of the Wild, Joan mourns her husband who disappeared a year earlier. However, when she stumbles upon a revival tent, she finds that the preacher looks just like her husband but the man doesn’t recognize her. WILD.

This book has such a wonderful sense of mystery and urgency. I loved it and how it wove in Metis lore as well.

Wintering by Katherine May • 🎧• ★★☆☆☆

This book has been on my radar for a minute. I felt like the timing was right. It’s February and I am going through literal and figurative winter. It sucks. I thought this book might give me some insight. The online description bills it as “An intimate, revelatory book exploring the ways we can care for and repair ourselves when life knocks us down,” and “Wintering invites us to change how we relate to our own fallow times.”

With that description in mind, I downloaded this book hoping to learn about nature, about dealing with loss, about embracing slow times. Instead, Wintering was more memoir than anything. May focuses nearly exclusively on herself (fine if it’s a memoir, not so fine if the book promises more sweeping perspectives).

Listening to this book was tedious (nothing against the wonderful narrator) and unhelpful. I wish I hadn’t spent the time with this one. It left me feeling worse than when I started.

Matrix by Lauren Groff • ★★★★★

While Wintering was a flop, I knew I could count on Lauren Groff to turn this month of reading around. Groff is one of my favorite authors; her writing is beautiful and each book is so different from the next. Even though I first read it 15 years ago, her short story collection Delicate Edible Birds still has a hold on me.

Matrix takes place in one of my least favorite settings for historical fiction: medieval England. But Groff won me over in an instant. Marie, a low-tier French royal, is sent off to a convent in England to where the nuns are dying to either help turn it around or to perish herself.

Marie thrives in this environment. She turns the convent around, she fortifies its nuns, she builds a damn labyrinth to confuse enemies and, when the town priests die in a fire, she starts saying Mass herself.

Matrix is sweeping and wonderful. It’s heretical and delightful. It’s majestic and real. Everything that Groff does best.

Keep up with what I’ve read over on Goodreads! Also, if you’re an audiobook fan, I encourage you to try Libro.fm—you can support your favorite small bookstore while downloading your next listen.

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January 31, 2024 by Lisa Leave a Comment

What I Read // January 2024

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I kicked off this year fairly strong with reading. I tackled four books this month—including two non-fiction works. Who am I? My goal this year is to hit 40 books (50 is my stretch goal) and I’m already 10% there. Let’s get started!

Dolls of Our Lives by Mary Mahoney and Allison Horrocks • 🎧 • ★★★☆☆

I am an American Girl person. When I was 6, I got Samantha for Christmas. From that moment on, I was sold. The books, the doll outfits, the magazine, the catalog—I was in.

So it’s no surprise that I picked up Dolls of Our Lives, though it is surprising to me that I’d never heard of or listened to the authors’ podcast of the same name.

Perhaps if I had listened to the podcast first, I might have skipped the book. While I enjoyed reminiscing about the dolls and the books, I felt like the authors missed a few big tricks here.

First, they never interviewed Pleasant Rowland, the founder of American Girl, claiming they never wanted to meet their heroes. I am fortunate enough to have met Rowland when she visited one of my classes in college. She was better than I ever hoped. I feel like neglecting to talk with the founder of the company was a big miss for Mahoney and Horrocks (and their loss!).

Also, I felt like the perspective was a bit limiting. The authors focused exclusively on the original dolls (that’s Felicity, Kirsten, Molly, Addy, Samantha and Josefina) and their stories. Mahoney and Horrocks made some great points about the problematic nature (and woeful whiteness) of some of the American Girl books and the perspectives they shared (and neglected). These critiques are completely fair and warranted.

However, since the brand’s early days in the ’80s and ’90s, it’s done a lot to expand the stories they tell and to do it right (at least as far as I can discern). For example, American Girl spent the better part of a decade creating the Kaya doll. The brand assembled a committee of Nez Perce elders, teachers and more to ensure every detail—from the textiles to the hair color to the storyline—was accurate. I think that’s very cool. Similarly, the brand did some solid homework in creating Claudie, a girl growing up in Harlem in 1922. Designers took clothing inspiration from a children’s magazine headed by W.E.B. Du Bois and recruited author and AG superfan Brit Bennett to write the Claudie books.

So, in some ways, I enjoyed the nostalgia of the book, but I also felt like it was incomplete. This is such a serious review for a book about dolls, but I am forever about hot takes with low stakes.

The Unidentified by Colin Dickey • 🎧 • ★★★☆☆

I read Ghostland by Colin Dickey several years ago, and while I love the idea of ghosts and ghouls, I also enjoyed how he dismantled a lot of legends. I was expecting the same of The Unidentified but for cryptids, UFOs and other unexplained phenomena.

In some ways, Dickey accomplished this. His analysis of how UFO and alien encounters exploded in the Cold War era was very interesting. And I had never heard of Lemuria, an Atlantis-like lost continent.

But I don’t think that Dickey did service to indigenous communities and their relationships to what many would consider cryptids.

Overall, this was a mixed bag. I’m not sure I’d even recommend it. Should I demote to two stars? Does it matter?

The House of Special Purpose by John Boyne • ★★★★☆

Wintertime is Romanov time. When temps drop, I pick up stories set around the Russian Revolution. You can blame the 1997 animated masterpiece Anastasia for this specific and long-lasting interest.

I really enjoyed this book from John Boyne. I’ve read a few of his books in the past, and I think this is my favorite. In The House of Special Purpose (that was the name given to the home where the Romanovs were kept in exile before their execution), a young man from rural Russia is brought to St. Petersburg to be guard and companion to the the tsar’s son.

Does this guard later fall in love with Anastasia? YOU BET. That’s why this book was so good to me—and the lovely writing as well.

Romantic Comedy by Curtis Sittenfeld • ★★★★☆

I haven’t picked up a Curtis Sittenfeld book in an age. I read Prep while in high school where it was the talk of the school library.

Romantic Comedy is obviously a departure from Prep, and it was a really fun listen. The book turns the trope of average-looking comedians landing model gorgeous partners on its head all within the setup of an SNL-like show. As an SNL fan, this was a fun read.

And I didn’t even mind that it was partially set during the pandemic. In fact, it reminded me of the speck of goodness that came out of those early days of staying in one place and being still. Highly recommend.

Keep up with what I’ve read over on Goodreads! Also, if you’re an audiobook fan, I encourage you to try Libro.fm—you can support your favorite small bookstore while downloading your next listen.

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January 4, 2024 by Lisa Leave a Comment

A Year in Books: 2023

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2023 was a good year for reading. I smashed my reading goal of 40 books. By the end of the year, I racked up a whopping 58 books! In the end that was more than 10 full days of listening and nearly 10,000 pages of reading. Thank you to the Milwaukee Public Library for the major assist (also, please follow their phenomenal socials).

According to Goodreads, my average book score for the year was a measly 3.2 stars. Three stars isn’t a bad review, in my opinion, but nothing that I’d go out of my way to recommend.

But I would recommend a few reads off my 2023 list. Here are my top picks of the year—the ones that earned four or five stars. I suggest you add to your TBR for the year ahead.


One Night on the Island by Josie Silver

I read a good amount of romance this year—more than a dozen titles—but One Night on the Island is my favorite of the bunch. It’s by Josie Silver, author of one of the best holiday romances of all time: One Day in December (I named it a top Christmas read last month).

This book has all you could ask for in a cozy read: a burnt-out woman taking a break from publishing (hey, that was me!) and heading off to Ireland (also me!). The ending wasn’t how I’d write it, but it was still a good one that will make you smile.

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The Farewell Tour by Stephanie Clifford

In 2023, I went on a bit of a country kick. I spent weeks listening to Tammy Wynette. I visited Nashville and loved every second. I even asked myself if my outfit was yee-haw enough before going to the Grand Ole Opry (it wasn’t).

The Farewell Tour spoke so much to this phase of my year, but it was so much more. This book followed an artist in the same vein as Dolly Parton or Loretta Lynn and how she rose to fame—even later in life. But The Farewell Tour was about so much more than fame. It was about reckoning with your past, forging your own path and facing the future—even if it’s uncertain. I loved every second and think it deserves all five stars.

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The Chelsea Girls by Fiona Davis

Fiona Davis does such a wonderful job portraying women. In every novel of hers, she paints brilliant portraits of complicated fictional people in equally complicated (though very much real) times.

In The Chelsea Girls, Davis manages to transform a part of history I don’t find particularly appealing—the Cold War and the Red Scare—into a riveting tale of talent and friendship. This is a must for any historical fiction fanatic.

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The Only One Left by Riley Sager

I love a gothic thriller, and I am forever on the hunt for one that hits all the marks for me: gloomy atmosphere, characters with mysterious pasts, supernatural (or supernatural-seeming) elements and a vaguely unsettling feel. The Only One Left managed to tick all the boxes.

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Return to Valetto by Dominic Smith

This book was a slow burn. I’ll admit, it took me a moment to warm to it, but as the drama developed—and later took an entirely different path—I couldn’t stop listening to it.

What starts as a family drama of one type soon unfurls into something much bigger and profound. And the ending is superb.

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The Fervor by Alma Katsu

Alma Katsu does historical fiction-turned-scary so well. She takes parts of history that we think we know, like the sinking of the Titanic in The Deep and the Donner Party in The Hunger, and turns them into something that’s somehow more eerie.

She does the same in The Fervor. This book of Katsu’s is perhaps the most affecting as it bends and twists the already horrific story of the Japanese internment camps in the US. It sounds dark—and it is—but it’s hauntingly readable.

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December 29, 2023 by Lisa Leave a Comment

What I Read // December 2023

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I finished December out strong with a total of six books—three of which were holiday-themed and two of which were very wintry. I’ll be here soon with a recap of my favorite reads, but take a peek here. I found two four-star reads that are worth picking up.

The Christmas Murder Game by Alexandra Benedict • ★★★☆☆

I don’t read many mysteries; in fact, this is only the second true mystery novel I’ve ever read. But I knew I wanted to try a holiday book this year that wasn’t a fun rom-com.

The Christmas Murder Game fit the bill. In this mystery, Lily is beckoned back to her family home with all her cousins. Over the Twelve Days of Christmas, her and her kin work to solve riddles. Whoever solves the puzzle at large, inherits the house.

Day one, there’s a snowstorm that traps everyone inside. Then as the days progress, cousins are picked off one by one.

It is, by my estimation, a pretty standard mystery set up, but one that I enjoyed. This is by no means a must-read, but it’s a nice way to get some subtle Christmas feelings when you’re not quite ready to go full One Day in December (one of my Christmas faves).

All I Want for Christmas by Maggie Knox • 🎧 • ★★★☆☆

I read Maggie Knox’s first book, The Holiday Swap back in December 2021. I also gave that read three stars.

This book is very cute—and it hit the marks with nods to Nashville (I’ve been on a country kick and I visited Nashville earlier this year) and Milwaukee. But there was a lot of back and forth. It could have been tightened up a bit. Like, I don’t want to read about how someone is on their way to the studio and someone else is checking up on their progress for 20 pages. This all being said, though, it was a nice listen and well performed (even if the Wisconsin accent verged more on Minnesota—A+ to the narrator for trying!).

A December to Remember by Jenny Bayliss • 🎧 • ★★★★☆

I’ve read every one of Jenny Bayliss’s books, and they are always a treat (The Twelve Dates of Christmas is one of my favorite Christmas books of all time). I like to pick them up not just because they are not only heartwarming and cozy, but because they encourage me to slow down during a frantic holiday season.

In Bayliss’s latest, three sisters are called together after their father’s death to stage a Yule festival, a long-forgotten tradition in their English town.

I loved how this book focused on Yule! It wasn’t in a witchy way, but it was a nice nod to old traditions. Also as one of three sisters, this book spoke to me.

The Resort by Sarah Goodwin • ★★★☆☆

This book caught my attention right away at the library. A woman and her husband are off to attend her sister’s wedding in the Alps. Along the way, the car breaks down and there’s no choice but to shelter in an abandoned village. Soon Mila finds herself alone in this ghost town and with diminishing resources.

Despite being entirely different from All I Want for Christmas, I had a similar complaint with this book: so much back and forth. How many times do I have to read about Mila walking out in the cold to find nothing and coming back inside?

It was a bit tedious to me, but not terrible.

Five Total Strangers by Natalie D. Richards • ★★☆☆☆

No, I did not realize this was young adult fiction when I rented it from the library. Maybe that’s why I disliked it so much? Also, as a Wisconsin driver, I don’t need any more snowy road drama that I already get.

The gist here is that Mira’s connecting flight home gets canceled on Christmas Eve. In an effort to get home in time for the holiday, she catches a ride with a few college students from her fight. Because of the snowy weather, this trip is harrowing—and someone in the car is making sure they won’t make it home in time.

Like The Resort, there was a lot of back and forth in Five Total Strangers. Lots of turning the car around, lots of checking on a phone battery, lots of stopping at gas stations. Overall, this snowy race to Christmas book was too repetitive.

The Wager by David Grann • 🎧 • ★★★★☆

At the end of the month, I found myself in a bit of a reading funk. I didn’t feel like finishing another rom-com or seasonal book, wasn’t intrigued by any thrillers and found myself bored by historical fiction.

That’s how I knew it was time to find a good piece of non-fiction. I don’t like to read non-fiction, but I really enjoy it as a listen; it’s like a very long podcast.

The Wager, a true maritime disaster story, popped up on a few best-of lists, including critics’ favorites on NPR (I, unsurprisingly, love NPR), and it deserves its place there.

I’ll be back in a few days to share my favorite reads and listens of 2023. Until then, you can follow along with my progress and see what I’ve read over on Goodreads! Also, if you’re an audiobook fan, I encourage you to try Libro.fm—you can support your favorite small bookstore while downloading your next listen.

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